This morning in adoration I was reading today's mediation which happened to be on detachment. I expected to read something profound about the need to give up material things for a closer relationship with the Lord. In fact, I did read something to that effect. However, what struck me was the realization that in my quest for closeness with Christ, I should not stop at my smart-phone, my boots, or computer. I need to look at particular friendship and how they affect my relationship with Christ. The ones that do not affect it for the better, I must give up.
I started thinking about my friends, some of them I love dearly but the reality is that they are not helping me live my life as a true child of God. In fact, I find that I often have to repressed that side of me in order to put them at ease and to not seem "preachy" or "self-righteous". How do I turn my back on a friendship that is 3, 4, 5 and in some cases over 8 years old? How do I say to someone, I love you but I love Christ more? How do you tell someone that the very reason you must part ways is the very thing about you they do not know let alone understand?
Today's meditation draws from today's gospel and I would have never made the connection to the need for detachment had it not been for the meditation. The villagers chased Jesus out of their parts because to them the life of the man saved was not worth the life of the herd of swine lost. Unfortunately they could not see beyond their material needs and wants. Up until today, I can honestly say that I was just like them, I was unable to see beyond the need to have my friends in my life, beyond the need to keep my social circle as it is and I never made the connection that some friendships were in the way of my relationship with Christ and my development as a Christian woman. I have been thinking of some friendships that I might need to distance myself from but was never fully willing to give them up, I could not see..... correction, I was not willing to admit the truth about what effect they have on my relationship with Christ.
I don't know how but I know that I must say some goodbyes. I will continue my prayers for strength and hope that the Holy Spirit remains with me when I come face to face with those hard decisions.
As always I beg your prayers.
Pax,
Hopeful
I started thinking about my friends, some of them I love dearly but the reality is that they are not helping me live my life as a true child of God. In fact, I find that I often have to repressed that side of me in order to put them at ease and to not seem "preachy" or "self-righteous". How do I turn my back on a friendship that is 3, 4, 5 and in some cases over 8 years old? How do I say to someone, I love you but I love Christ more? How do you tell someone that the very reason you must part ways is the very thing about you they do not know let alone understand?
Today's meditation draws from today's gospel and I would have never made the connection to the need for detachment had it not been for the meditation. The villagers chased Jesus out of their parts because to them the life of the man saved was not worth the life of the herd of swine lost. Unfortunately they could not see beyond their material needs and wants. Up until today, I can honestly say that I was just like them, I was unable to see beyond the need to have my friends in my life, beyond the need to keep my social circle as it is and I never made the connection that some friendships were in the way of my relationship with Christ and my development as a Christian woman. I have been thinking of some friendships that I might need to distance myself from but was never fully willing to give them up, I could not see..... correction, I was not willing to admit the truth about what effect they have on my relationship with Christ.
I don't know how but I know that I must say some goodbyes. I will continue my prayers for strength and hope that the Holy Spirit remains with me when I come face to face with those hard decisions.
As always I beg your prayers.
Pax,
Hopeful
